Make Your Wife Hot

Latinas are sexy. Period. They are extremely popular in porn and have grown as a dynamic and powerful cultural segment in Hollywood and our melting pot culture in North America. There are specific REASONS a man is attracted to a Latina. Some of these reasons are obvious, others not so much. I was fortunate enough to marry an extremely hot Venezuelan woman who looks like she is 29 and is actually in her mid 40’s. She went through her “post baby” frumpy phase like many women, but her culture, our marriage and our sex life pulled us both back from the brink of divorce to the roots of our lust and attraction.

How about spicing up your love life, with a little Latina flavor? Your woman may have a different heritage, but there is no rule that says ANY culture can’t learn a few pointers from another. After all, we aren’t called the melting pot because of our overly priced fondue restaurants.

I interviewed my wife and her sisters and got a consensus of what makes them so hot and what other women can learn from them. (Remember, Miss Universe has been Venezuelan more than any other country…Caliente!) Here’s how to inject sexy into your wife or girlfriend, Latina style.

Our Sexy Latina Minds

Latinas don’t want to be like men. We want equal rights and want to be as respected, but we aren’t men and have less masculine traits of any culture. We don’t want to be treated as men. We’re not men! We are unique, feminine and want to be treated like a lady.

We are females, we’re proud of that. We embrace everything that comes in the “female package”: sweetness, sensibility, intuition, creativity, delicateness, motherhood, the ability to nurture others…everything. The only masculine characteristic you will find in us is our stubbornness and resolve. Treat us like a princess and we’ll rock your world forever. Treat us poorly and we’ll throw rocks at your face until we throw your ass out.

We see men as partners; we believe partners should complement each other, not compete. We don’t believe we need to compete with men, or act like them, to be appreciated, respected and valuable. You are there to take care of us, first and foremost. Get over it. As long as you do that, you’ll be happy you did…get it?

Tip: Let him be the man. Laugh at his jokes. Wait for him to open the door. Ask for his help. Appeal to his masculinity, chivalry and strength.

Our Sexy Latina Body Language

“Latinas are privileged women in this subject. We have a freer, expressive body language; we have friendly, warm personalities, and the way we move is a direct reflection of that.”

We are not afraid of expressing our emotions with body language. We touch, we smile, we hug, we dance, and we sway our hips. We talk loud, we scream when we’re angry, we cry when we’re sad. We walk as free women, because we are! This independence is appealing only to strong men. If you are threatened by a strong woman, just get out of our way…we aren’t looking for you. We are hot and we want you to WANT us to be hot. (Click here to create a smokin’ hot wife)

Tip: Let your emotions show in your body language. Don’t restrain yourself with a polite varnish of demure; let your body tell the truth!

Our Sexy Latina Fashion

We use a lot of skirts and dresses. Long or short, it doesn’t matter; we love the most feminine outfit – the skirt. Shorts are always good as long as it shows off our tight little ass. And the blouses… we love delicate, sexy blouses! For those of us blessed with boobs or a good plastic surgeon, you’ll see we like our cleavage as much as you. A well dressed Latina is a feast to the eyes: some skin showing, thin strips over her shoulders, beautiful colors, curves and movement and maybe some embroidered detail. We are curvy, our skin is smooth and soft and we want to show it off.

Tip: Don’t dress like a man, unless you can’t avoid it. Don’t dress as if you were going to a funeral, either. When you go out, dress as though you are the center of attention.

Our Sexy Latina Personality

We are strong and we show it. We speak our mind. We’re passionate and expressive about what we like or dislike. We demand what we need, and we’re not shy of expressing our opinion. We know that a woman who shows her unique qualities is way more interesting. If you agree with everything, you’ll end up being in the background. Standing out means knowing who you are and not being shy about telling anyone about it.

By the same token, we are not ashamed when we express our need of protection, consolation, guidance, help or advice. Latinas don’t think being vulnerable is a sign of weakness. Quite the opposite, it is an expression of our femininity and your strength will compliment us.

Tip: Tell him what you really think. Ask for help. Be sincere and truthful; don’t “go along” just because you’re afraid of being different from the rest.

Our Sexy Latina Sexy Behavior

Latinas live in a permanent affair with life. We are naturally seductive; we flirt shamelessly. We know we are sexy, so we smile, walk, talk and dance as sexy women. We know our man is delighted with our company, so we smile and look at his eyes, we laugh, we touch his arm, and we play with our hair.

Strippers, pole dances and dirty dancing have nothing over a good salsa or reggaeton. I challenge you to find a sexier more mesmerizing dancer than a hot Latina. We invented this stuff! (Click below for an example)

Tip: Be self-confident; you can’t be sexy and insecure at once. Flirt with him; express your interest on him, through your behavior. Think naughty!

NOTE: None of the above statements means Latinas are submissive or promiscuous. We just see life through a more organic, harmonic and genuine point of view.

Thanks to Maria, Angel and Rosanna for their candor. You three sirens embody in your very soul what a sexual, interesting and feminine woman should be. For more ideas, tricks tips on making YOUR wife or girlfriend hot, click here.