How to Convince Your Wife to Bring Home a Girlfriend

Doug

OK, Stud….here it is. The odds are REALLY stacked against you, but remember, not ALL women are created equal! There is a better chance of you winning Playboy’s “Most Interesting Man” contest before you wife will bring home a playmate for you. That being said, IT HAPPENS TO SOMEBODY!!! Here are some simple steps to sway the odds to your favor.

First of all, over 63% of ALL women have “thought” about kissing (or more) another woman. That doesn’t mean they’ve thought about it a ton…but it has crossed their minds. 17% of women surveyed have stated that they have tried it or have thought about it more than twice. A full 8% said that given the right circumstances, they would entertain a three-some with their partner as long as the rules were clear.

So, the odds are 92% that you are going to strike out, chump. Don’t despair! After you read and execute the following steps, you can cut those odds in half, and at the very least, your fantasy time with your wife will increase TREMENDOUSLY! The key is to take a step by step approach to loosening up the mrs. and getting her used to the idea of some “advanced” sex. It is IMPERATIVE that you take these steps in the proper order. Going out of order will set you back months and probably dump you back (maybe permanently) in the 92% of guys who have to keep those fantasies to themselves.

1. Dirty talk more often. This is harmless, playful, and can actually get the 63% bisexual “thinkers” to consider the later steps. If you can’t go further than this because you married sweet polly purebred, that’s OK. You will undoubtedly have the best pillow talk imaginable because it will remain a fantasy. This is where 70% of men end up anyway, so don’t despair. Then again, DON’T give up either!!! Depending on your desire, you may consider the following steps to at least get her to try some 3-D fantasies!

2. Watch porno together. Most of the porno on DVD contains some form of advanced sex. Even the gang bang stuff can be considered harmless by many women (after all, its not THEM in the video-right?). After you get her used to watching a movie every so often, check out the MILF and girl on girl stuff. Have a bottle of wine and be sure to laugh a ton. That will break down the barriers a bit more.

3. Go to a gentleman’s club together. The best way to broach this subject is to let her know that you’ve been to a few and you miss her! (That last convention was fun, but after you got home, you had to choke the chicken instead of giving your wife a few dollar bills) Get her to talk with one or two of the girls. Make sure it is a clean and classy place. Let the dancers know she is a newbie and any professional will help you out by making her feel welcome.

4. If you can get her to a club once, you can do it twice. Next visit, with the right application of alcohol and a week or two of celibacy, you should get her a lap dance. If you can see the same dancer as before, they may strike up a friendship….KaCHING!!!

5. After you have sufficiently warmed up the Mrs. to this classy, harmless, and exciting behavior, you stand a chance of taking it to the next level. Have a playful but serious conversation about experimentation, erotic topics and what it might be like for the 2 or 3 of you. Women respond to emotion. USE That emotion to your advantage. Some women will want a relationship; others won’t. YOU won’t know which way that will go until you start. For more in depth analysis and stories, get the book “Open”.

6. IF you’ve got her to try now the 2nd most difficult part begins…WHO? You can try a professional or amateur…it’s up to the two of you. The more you talk about the rules, guidelines and expectations the better. Hiring an escort is a sure thing. Opening up a erotic dancer is the next best thing. Considering someone you know is a whole other ball game. We will have a full blown ebook on this topic (with testimonials of success stories) coming out soon…stay tuned!

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Reflect, Re-Energize & Re-Kindle

Doug

While it is important to encourage you and your wife to grow, explore and create the sizzling experiences you both desire, sometimes achieving that calls for a bit of reflection and a “view from 30,000 feet”. In order to have the steamy exploits we all want, you have to REALLY understand communication and encourage each other’s psyche as well as libido.

Keep it fresh. Routines can give a couple comfort sense and predictability that’s both grounding and reassuring. But spontaneous adventures are also essential to really keeping that spark alive and igniting the passion you desire. Happy couples make a habit of mixing things up by planning weekend getaways to undiscovered destinations, saving money or going into business together to afford that dream vacation, or going to a sex store together. Having exciting or erotic anticipation to look forward to and sharing new titillating adventures together reaffirms their connectedness and refuels the romance.

Clear the decks. It is natural for any couple to havefrustrations, disappointments, and miscommunications from time to time. But if issues go on unspoken, they can pile up to a mountain of frustration and put your marriage at risk. Happy couples make sure they keep the communication open, and navigate those inevitable rough spots with honesty and mutual respect. If issues come up that seem too big or too complex to resolve between you two, schedule some sessions with a marriage counselor to sort out their feelings. IT isn’t scary at all and I guarantee, you’ll leave the session(s) feeling better!

Have a life.Maintaining individual identities and pursuing individual interests ensures that there’ll always be new things to share and to learn about each other. Dont’ be afraid to take separate vacations once in a while, take up divergent interests, or engage in heated political discussions. You are an individual and respecting ones individuality is very important.

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“Love Guru” Can Make Your Wife HOT!

Doug

Admiration, flattery, and compliments are things that we, as humans all crave. People go to extremes for recognition in our society. Your wife is no different. She should be placed on a pedastal by you. In order to make your wife totally hot, you need to formulate a slow, steady, step by step plan that takes into consideration HER needs and yours. Her needs come first, my friend. It is the only way to get what you want. Let’s face it, we ALL want a hot woman on our arm as we walk into a room. It can boost both our egos. So, what if your wife is average? What if she is the kindest, smartest, and nicest person in the world? Doesn’t that count for anything? Of course it does…beauty is skin deep and relationships based soley on physical attraction are doomed from the beginning. However, that does not mean that your wife wants to be frumpy! The simplest, non-materialistic woman in the world still wants to look and feel like a princess. You, as her knight, are responsible for helping her. I outline a specific psychological and practical process for this in my book available online.

Here are some salient points that you need to address and work on in order to have a gorgeous trophy wife like I do!

1. Even BEFORE you take her shopping, (YES…you are going shopping, buddy) compliment her on her features. Tell her how slender her legs are, how trim her waist is, or how sexy her tummy is. Be specific and direct. Tell her that you have always been attracted to these features and it really turns you on.

2. If some of her features are not as hot as they used to be, don’t worry. Throughout this process you will be using specific, positive, effective triggers to get her to tone up, lose weight, and dress up for the both of you! Don’t give her false flattery. If her rear is too big, don’t say it isn’t…she’ll know you re lying.

3. Go to a NICE store. I’m not bashing Target or Walmart, here. But, if you want a supermodel for a wife, you need to go to where the fashions are. You don’t have to pay retail…go to the sale rack if you can and take the TIME to let her try on as much as she wants.

4. Be honest. If she comes out in something that isn’t flattering, pause and suggest she try something else on. When she does come out with something flattering, use your body language, voice and eyes to let her know how beautiful she is. Having your jaw hit the floor will do more for your relationship than you can imagine. Not all women want to be models, but they all want to be desired by their husbands. Let her know you are impressed!

5. If she can’t decide between 2 outfits, buy them both. Sometimes you may spend a bit more than you are comfortable with. Get over it. Spending money together on things that make her beautiful and make you proud is much cheaper than therapy and/or divorce! Let her know that you WANT her to spend some cash on herself. She may already be the one who spends too much in the household…so what. This shopping trip is being used for her ego, your libido, and to re-ignite the passion in your marriage. If she looks especially fine and your marital progress can handle it, go into the dressing room with her and SHOW her how hot she is….a little fondling or full blown sex in a dressing room is sure to be exciting…don’t get caught, or you won’t be invited to shop there again.

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Don’t Change Wives, Change Positions!

Doug

Duh! But it goes WAY beyond missionary to doggy. For anyone who has been married more than a year, even trying a new position every day will eventually expire your creative juices (Pun intended). When it comes to changing positions, you have more than simply your physical variables. Sure you can move this way and that, but what about changing something OTHER than yourselves?  Interested? There are hundreds of ideas, strategies and influential tricks you can use by clicking on my website. For instant success, read on…

Change your pillows. Putting a pillow underneath your wife can deepen your penetration by up to a full 1.5 inches depending on how you measure it, and how she stretches and reacts.

Change your headboard. Headboard…what a dumb idea. What about a footboard! Now, you can get some traction. Do a 180 degree move on your bed and use your headboard or wall as a fixed object to work from. You’ll go deeper, appear stronger and I guarantee everyone will benefit.

Change location. This isn’t as obvious as it seems. Less than 3% of married couples ever get a hotel room in their own home town and fewer still have done it in their own car! Go to the drive-in, or after a great dinner, go to the park, beach, or library! Changing location and bordering on havin sex in public can be extremely thrilling! Don’t forget other areas of you own home including the kitchen, closets and other rooms. Experiment!

Have an affair. People START affairs because of a lack of attention, communication and/or sex. The thrill and danger obviously accelerates the excitement. You can have an affair WITH your spouse by simply taking on a new role, personality or doing it in a local hotel.  It takes some play acting, but who cares? You are married and probably have had plenty of embarrassing moments before. Create a new name, check into a cheap hotel and get out of there in under an hour! Be creative!

Change your pace. If your love-making style resembles a rabbit, try slowing down and moving as SLOWLY as possible. If you traditionally are a gentle lover, mimic the rabbit. The more varied you are in your style, the more interesting you will be to her, and you’ll discover new things about yourself as well.

Change your dress. Rent a tuxedo, uniform, or other outfit and play dress up. Most adults have no imagination and are embarrassed to do things like this. What have you got to lose? Giggle about it, split a bottle of wine, or simply test the waters with a hat or a tool belt. Needless to say, nurses outfits work better on her than you!

For more ideas on putting the spice back into your marriage, and making your wife the smokin’ hot trophy wife of your dreams, visit my site at www.makeyourwifehot.com. I guarantee your relationship will be saved, improved, and if you really apply yourself, you will be the adonis she craves and will want every night.