Sex, Jealousy and Open Manipulation

Doug

I went out with my wife and 3 of her hot friends last night and OMG what a rush!

Normally, the emotion of jealousy is negative and drives a wedge between 2 people. Tempers flair, people judge and we end up acting like little Johnny on the 5th grade playground.

However, there is a way to USE the emotion of jealousy to your advantage. Last night I did JUST that! Don’t worry, I told my wife exactly what I was doing before I did it. To the emotional side of our brain, it didn’t matter. We had a great time. Here’s how it worked…

The male ego would love a harem. Think a sheik and 23 dancing girls in his tent. That guy might have 12 wives and STILL he gets 23 dancing girls…ah the good old days. This boosts our ego and if women were not so independent nowadays, we still might be able to get away with that!

From a female perspective, she wants to know that SHE is the most desireable and sexiest woman in the world to her man. Some overly jealous women can’t bare the thought of their guy looking at other girls. I use that undeniable quality to increase the love with my wife and the passion of that love.

Before we went to the club with my wife and her three hot friends, I told her about my fantasy of going out with 3 hot women, dancing, drinking, and then all of us coming back to our hotel suite. We would party some more and ALL the girls would be giddy and a little bit “handsy”. After a few minutes of harmless teasing, I would look her friends in the eye and say, “You are lovely, but I really need to fuck my wife now.”

This fantasy accomplishes a huge ego boost for the both of us. I get the harem that I always desired and she is selected as the ONLY one from a flock of very desirable women. She is the prettiest, the best, and the one I love. This ONLY works, of course, with complete honesty and communication. The stage must be set with the right players, the actors must know the script, and even though we all know it is a show, we are turned on nonetheless.

For more ideas, stories, and strategies to make your wife the red-hot MILF she can be, go to www.makeyourwifehot.com. Your fantasies can come true. But, you have to plan them out, prepare the players, and not be afraid to make any mistakes (because you probably will-that’s half the fun!)


Sexy Weather Thunderstorms Inside & Outside!

Doug

Guys, there are scientific AND romantic reasons you can have BETTER sex whenever you want! A thunderstorm just blew through our area and my wife and I opened up the patio doors, let the air in (and a little rain) and simply banged our brains out!

I am over 40 (so is she) and we are having more sex than most newlywed 20-something year olds. We didn’t always have this passion, but after we almost divorced, we took a few simple, well thought out, and specific steps to increase our sex, passion, and lust for each other. For details, click here.

The thunderstorm did a few things:

1. The ionization of the atmosphere makes the air fresh, clean, and crisp. Not that the smell of sex is bad, its just that we all know how clear the air is after a thunderstorm. It revitalizes your senses and heightens your pleasure!

2. The lightning, thunder and rain showers all add additional atmosphere to our session. We even adjusted our rythmn to the thunderclaps! (sort of like movin’ to the sound of music only different) When we saw the lightning, we added and extra push and tried to time it to the 3-5 second delay of the thunder…pretty funny, really.

3. Romance…ah after the storms passed and we were left with the gentle rain shower, our lovemaking became more gentle and soft. I slowed down considerably and we focused on each and every nerve ending in our body. By focusing on each other our rythmn became totally in sync and we climaxed easily together.

The bottom line is, while most people are running around rolling up their windows and checking the gutters, we took advantage of the malestrom and used the power of the weather to support and encourge the power of our sexual appetite. Go for it! For more tips, ideas, commentary visit www.makeyourwifehot.com today!


Hawaiian Muscle Fuck…Not Just for D Cups!

Doug

We get stimulated 90% from what we see and 10% from what we hear. Why then do you leave the lights off, Felix?

Sure it FEELS good to have sex, but watching you and your partner do the deed certainly adds to the excitement (provided you are both in decent shape! If one or both of you are not, click here to correct the situation) One technique of sex named by somebody with too much time on their hands, is the Hawaiian muscle fuck. This technique is when the man slides his penis between the woman’s boobs.

Men are obsessed with breasts. The multi-billion dollar plastic surgery industry is supported largely by breast implants. If you live in California or South Florida, you can probably say that implants are now MORE common than natural breasts…modern medicine, what a miracle! The Hawaiian Muscle Fuck (HMF for short) is a great way to share with your partner her magnificent achievement and to get an extra dividend from the five grand you invested in those cannons. HER extra stimulation is going to be when she watches you slide your member between those melons and cum all over her chest (and hit her chin if you’ve got the range). This visual stimulation certainly adds to the pleasure for both of you. It allows you a change of scenery from your typical missionary and doggie positions and if you are real artist, you can even add some colored lube and paint a path to victory on her chest.

What if your girl isn’t so endowed? What’s a guy to do?

First choice; Start saving up for a breast job. There are some small framed women who look pretty good with average sized boobs. However, in all of recorded history, no one has ever said, “Gee your breast job looks bad. You were much prettier with a smaller chest.” That is not to say some women have breasts large enough to make Jabba the Hut attractive, we are referring to small chested women who are interested in the HMF technique. Strategy number one, get a breast job. You will both learn to appreciate modern medicine.

If a breast job is not an option for financial, ego, or stupidity, then you are not out of the game, Dexter! Just follow the following game plan.

1. Get plenty of lubrication. You’ll be needing it.
2. COMPLIMENT your woman on her breasts. You’ve already made her feel bad about the breast job idea for the past 2 years. If that option is off the table, you have to start over with building her up with what she’s got.
3. ACT like her breasts are huge. Give her auditory support (since she may not need underwire support) of her beauty. Pay specific attention to her chest and stare at them often.
4. Once you get started, you may find that the lack of cleavage won’t be enough to bring you to orgasm. Play around with the rest of the field. Add some oral, traditional sex, dirty talk, and advanced foreplay to the mix.
5. When you are about to orgasm, be SURE to go to the HMF and finish off there. She will really dig the visual of you pumping your load onto her. She will most likely spread it around like she’s icing a cake…that’s fine. Just be sure to clean her up when you’re done. It’s a nice gesture and she’ll think you are a prince.

For more in depth ideas on making your wife hot, having steamy sex, revitalizing your marriage, and creating the relationship of your dreams, visit www.makeyourwifehot.com.  


David Letterman, Sex, Youth & What IS funny

Doug

David Letterman’s joke about Sarah Palin’s daughter, retraction and innuendo are all part and parcel to what guys think…youth and sex go hand in hand. And yes…it was funny! Here’s why…

First of all, he intended the joke about the 18 year-old. Fair game-right? Let’s take it to the logical extension. If someone tried to make the SAME joke about Senator Palin’s 86 year-old mother, it wouldn’t be funny or even relevant. Oh, and by the way, it’s not entirely our fault, guys. The reason we don’t make promiscuous comments to grandmas is because their biological clock was turned off years ago.

Many people blame the media for putting lipstick on 14 year old Victoria Secret models. My own wife, formerly in advertising, winces at Chanel ads with 15 year-old’s. However, from an anthropological standpoint, men are SUPPOSED to have sex with vibrant, youthful and FERTILE females! That’s right. We won’t stand a chance propagating the species if we somehow “turned off our testosterone” and only focused on her “personality”. Sorry. We weren’t designed by our creator to be guests on the Oprah show. We were designed to kill the Mastodon, bring it back to the cave, and create more offspring with our youthful, attractive and fertile wives.

Making sure we STAY married, and STAY engaged with our wives regardless of our primeval desires can be challenging for some. For information, ideas, and my blog on this visit www.makeyourwifehot.com and you may actually turn your June Cleaver look-a-like for a Denise Richards certified MILF.

David Letterman’s joke about the 18 year old daughter was funny. Too bad he missed the name and made the joke about a girl who was 14. It was about as innocent as a typo. One that his writer’s should have caught. It probably would have worked if the joke was related to putting the 14 year old in a Ambercrombie and Fitch ad…on second thought, maybe it wouldn’t, because they already do that!

Sex, love, passion, and ideas to spice up your marriage and transform your average wife into a red-hot babe can be found at our website.Please visit my blog as well at http://makeyourwifehot.wordpress.com.


Love Secrets: What Women REALLY want!

Doug

What do women want? Let me tell you a secret, my friend, if you think they want Mel Gibson, you’re right. If you think they want Tom Hanks, you’re right, also. You see there is a strange biological pull that women want. Their bodies want a strong, chiseled man that will produce good offspring. Beauty isn’t JUST in the eye of the beholder. Studies have shown that the “George Clooney” look has a better chance of delivering viable offspring better than Woody Allen. Charm, humor and your BMW aside, women’s bodies desire the strongest genetic potential possible to propagate the species. Flash forward to the 21st century. HELLO! They also want us to be nice, listen more, and pick up our underwear. What’s a man to do? Is it possible to be the strong, “take charge” guy AND be a compassionate “boy next door”?

YES.

In fact, once you get CLOSE to mastering the psychological AND physiological needs of a female, you will enjoy MORE SEX, stronger relationships, and quite frankly, you will be happier in your life! Here are some tips to make sure you increase your masculinity, without becoming an emasculated, metrosexual, Oprah-fan.

1. Get in shape.For most men, we have traded in the spear and mastodon hunting trips for the PDA and the office. Women STILL respond to our role as provider. The need to provide for our families hasn’t changed. Only the tools that most of us use have. If you are in an office or other non-physical environment, you HAVE to make time to exercise. You should not exercise just to stay healthy. Look into routines and programs that actually make you look good! You only have so much time during the day, so make the most of it. After you shed 80% of that spare tire around your midsection, get a trainer or program to build that upper body look that will make you feel better and show her that if the economy DOES slide any further into the tar pits, that you will be ready to haul that spear at the neighbors dog to provide a decent meal.

2. Read about relationships.I know, I know…studies have shown that 94% of all relationship books are read by women. (and the other 6% male readers are probably gay) It doesn’t matter. If you WANT more sex and you want a more LOVING relationship, take 15 minutes per day and read about what women REALLY want. You will see that security ranks #1 in their brains. That security comes in the form of financial, family, marriage, and overall stability of their life. The more you can understand that, the better you will be able to communicate it to her in thought, deed, and speech. If you don’t have time to read a book, at least read through my blog and pick up my ebook. You will find the distilled version to what THEY want in a relationship and how to use that knowledge to have a better sex life!

3. Make clear decisions. When asked about where you want to go to dinner or where you should go on vacation, instead of saying, “Where would you like, honey” start voicing your opinion. Take charge. Be a man. Show her you have drive, desire, and the ability to be decisive. You aren’t chasing the mastodon, Henry, so at least you can find your way to the Olive Garden restaurant! It is a small thing, my friend, buy you will be surprised at the subtle reaction in your wife by the little bits of leadership you can show.

4. Listen more. “What?” you say. Yes, numbnuts…LISTEN MORE! If you are like most men, you have mastered the art of selective hearing. It’s time to reverse that somewhat. Take a REAL interest in what you wife may be blabbering about. If you show any kind of non-judgmental interest, you will be shocked at the increased level of interest she will have in your life and your libido. Take a few moments, ask her about her day and ask her to tell you more. Do NOT try to solve any issues she has. Just listen. Try not to fall asleep and you may actually get laid more.

5. Balance yourself. As you can see, women DO want the “take charge” chiseled strength of Mel Gibson AND they want the caring, charmer of Tom Hanks. You can be both (to a certain degree). But believe me when I say that you should NOT try to simply be one or the other. All women desire a combination of these two forces and you have the ability to strengthen yourself where you are weak and loosen up where you are too strong. That could mean you’ll have to cry less, work out more or both. In any event, you’ll notice a change in her AFTER you change yourself. There is no other order to this equation. Start today.

For more ideas on making YOUR wife hot, getting more love, sex, and enjoyment in your marriage, visit www.makeyourwifehot.com and order by ebook. Ladies (if you’ve read this far) we have a companion book for you coming out this summer, so stay tuned!


Make Her Wet BEFORE You Enter the Room

Doug

You’re an adult…of COURSE you know what foreplay is. You have some background with the female anatomy. You realize that even though your rocket ship is ready to launch with as little as a 2 second thought about sex, she needs stimulation.

Remember when you got her REALLY hot and wet? Sure there has been good sex and great sex. I’m sure that even with minimal foreplay and a steamy encounter, you’ve managed to have great sex.

Here’s a tip on how to have GREAT and even “Off the Chart” phenomenal sex. Surprise! It has nothing to do with your love stick or your breath (although that helps) No, stud…the secret to having phenomenal sex is 100% psychological.

Men think with their penis and women think with their heart. In order for you two to connect and really get your rocks off, you HAVE to speak to her heart.

Below are 8 surefire ideas to get her wet BEFORE you enter the room. Once you do any number of these, prepare to be attacked by a very passionate lady.

1. Leave post-it notes around the room that are ROMANTIC. Profess your undying love, dedication, and attraction to her. Leave out your penis size please. Think “Chick Flick” not porn here. Proper words and gestures are critical to cracking the female mind. For details on what to say, visit www.makeyourwifehot.com.

2. Send her flowers for NO reason whatsoever. Statistics show that 99.3% of all flower orders are for a specific occasion or season. Less than 1% of studs out there realize that a $25 flower arrangement “just because” has more power than a month supply of Viagra.

3. Tell one of her friends how much you adore her and love her. Don’t be obvious here. Next time you are at a party or event and you find yourself talking to one of her friends, mention how lucky you are and how you put your girl on a pedestal. Word will get back to your squeeze and hello, she’ll be all over you!

4. Do a chore around the house WITHOUT being asked. Next time the game comes on and you are all set to relax and watch your favorite team pound the crap out of their rivals, take a moment and PURPOSELY miss the first 4-5 minutes of the game. Pick one of your honey-do items and get it done. (You’ve already set the Tivo-right?) When she sees that you’ve sacrificed even a few minutes of your favorite past time for her, she’ll melt.

5. Ask her about her day and REALLY listen. I know…this may be pretty tough, but give it a try. She might not instantly get moist for you, but the long term effects will surely begin. Don’t try to solve ANY problem she talks about. Just listen, nod your head, and act like a girl. She won’t think you’ve gone gay, buddy. But she will be shocked at yourmetrosexual understanding and compassion.

6. Schedule one-on-one time with your kids. This has the added benefit of actually being fun! You get serious double points for taking one of your daughters shopping or your son to the zoo. When your bride sees a pro-active father, their confidence and security goes up. It really melts her heart. Don’t ever talk about how cool you are, by the way. It dilutes the sincerity of what you are suppposed to do anyway, you workaholic!

7. Draw a bubble bath, leave rose petals on the bedroom floor, light some candles and get out of the way! When you set up that relaxing and romantic atmosphere you should NOT expect to get lucky. She can smell that set up a mile away. Just PAMPER her! If you honestly do not expect to get any action from this sanctuary of peace, you are MORE likely to actually get it! Any anticipated “payback” makes the gesture seem cheap and contrived.

8. Send her (and a female friend for bonus points) to a spa for 1/2 or full day. If you have the means, don’t put any restriction on the services or amount they can spend. This gesture is a 100% home run for your sex life. She will come back feeling and looking sexier than ever. If you are on a budget, ask her what she wants but has never done. If that mud massage or facial is something she’s only dreamed about, make her dream come true. (Depending on your skills, do what you can to get that FULL wax job on her. You will both benefit from that service, I guarantee! See my previous blog on “Waxing for Pleasure”)

You get the idea, Chuck-right? When you are sincere, generous, and a little bit more in touch with the feminine mind, you will melt her heart even when you are not around. Speaking her language is the key to increased connection in your relationship and more satisfying sex. Most women have HUGE sex drives and tremendous passion. Your key to unlocking it is simply to take your time, be generous, and be gentle. Relax, my friend….she will be begging you for your night stick nightly before you know it.

Fore more ideas, tricks, tips, and a sure-fire system to  turn your wife into the sexy nympho you’ve dreamed about go to www.makeyourwifehot.com and create the MILF you deserve. The book comes with an unconditional money-back guarantee. You have NOTHING to lose, except some sleep as your sex live improves! Click on the link below and start living your fantasies!

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Odd Jobs=Blow Jobs

Doug

As a man, it pains me to admit it, but we are really stupid!

If we realize how EASY it is to impress our wives, we can get all the sex we want. Most of us suffer from waiting to be asked (usually more than once) to clean out the gutters, pick up our underwear, or fix the broken door handle. We have plenty of excuses not to, of course. We work hard, need a break, the game is on right now, or I will get to it later, are all reasonable and popular excuses for not getting things done promptly (or at all). I am as guilty of this as the next guy….until now.

You see, when I take even 10 minutes and totally ignore what I want and focus 100% on what she wants, I am seen as a hero. This weekend, when there was plenty of outdoor work to be done AND I had to finish a bunch of reports for work. I elected to get outside and not only do the odd jobs she requested, but 3 or 4 extra ones she had NOT requested. The old adage of “Under-promising and Over-delivering” is used in business all the time. It can also apply to your marriage!

Even taking 10 extra minutes per day and doing that extra odd job can deliver dividends well past the 10 minutes you invested! If you don’t have any odd jobs around the house, why not get her some flowers “just because.” You can wash her car, fix her lunch, vaccum the house, or schedule a facial for her. Doing small things for no particular reason will most likely shock her. But, if you play your cards right and to the proper set up and delivery as outlined in my book, you can expect to be treated like a king!

Go ahead and impress her. It doesn’t take a whole lot of time and rarely costs you any money. By being her knight in shining armor or her handyman extrordinaire, you will be building up an emotional bank account that will allow you to withraw dividends (sexual or otherwise) for months to come.

For more tips, tricks, and a step by step method to making your wife HOT, visit my website at www.makeyourwifehot.com.


It’s the SEX, Stupid!

Doug

Some people (frustrated women, mostly) accuse me of focusing too much on sex! I get emails constantly from these people saying that I focus on sex WAY too much in my book, blog, and articles. Obviously, NONE of these people have ever read my book which CLEARLY outlines how we, as men, must be the first to change in our relationships. It is impossible to change another individual who doesn’t want to change! Therefore, the ONLY person we can change is ourselves. It is those subtle and often dramatic changes in ourselves that cause, influence, motivate or hypnotize the other people into wanting to change themselves. I clearly outline this in my book, which is available by clicking here.

If you haven’t read, “Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus” I strongly encourage you to do so. There are dozens of other books that explain how and why we think and act the way we do. I have a recommended video and reading list available on my website. The MORE you understand how a woman thinks, the easier it will be for you to tap into their patterns, beliefs, and core values and use that knowledge to get what you want…MORE SEX!

This isn’t manipulation or “mind control” of course. This is simply communication at a higher level. The more you communicate in the style that makes SENSE to your wife, the more she will reciprocate and communicate in your style.  Here is an example:

Your wife wants to talk…too much. When a woman talks, she wants only one thing; for you to listen. NOT for you to solve, approve, agree, disagree, or ignore….but to listen. The more intently you listen and even just try to understand what she is saying, the more points you will score. These “points” are useful on two levels.

1. When you listen, and listen intently, you will understand her more. This leads to higher communciation, better connectivity and a more intimate relationship.

2. When she believes that you are listening and NOT trying to solve her problems, you will be communicating on her level. Women don’t often need a solution to their monologues, they simply want to be heard. Whomever listens well (usually it is their best girlfriend) is seen as a genuine friend. Imagine if that was you! Her emotional bank account will be filled with your genuine interest…interest that you can withdrawl when the time is right!

So, yeah…it is about the sex. Men need sex to feel loved, and women need love to have sex. As men, it is up to us to lead by example, deliver the intimacy they need, in order to fulfill our own needs. Don’t fake it, by watching the game and saying, “uh huh.”  that will immediately close your account for hours, days or weeks depending on your track record. An attentive listener becomes an attentive lover. 

For more insight into how a woman thinks, how YOU can tap into that power, and make YOUR wife HOT, visit my website by clicking here or visit, www.makeyourwifehot.com.


Hello Husbands!

Doug

Today, after some amazing lovemaking with my hot wife, I decided I would start a kiss-and-tell blog.

I can’t help myself.  I love bragging about my trohpy wife and the great times we have together.  Hopefully this will inspire some husbands to implement the techniques taught in my guide so they can experience this for themselves!

And to all other husbands, it will make them JEALOUS as hell as they drool like animals at the storys of passion between myself and my super hot wife!

I would also like to welcome OTHER bloggers to add and cross promote our information…it’s like a light bulb went off in her! She used to be so cold, now she can’t get enough!!!! I know I am not alone out there!? Please comment, write us, and let’s create a new revolution of communication, intense passion and MORE SEX! Blog Now!

Got to run!  Someone is calling my name!!!