Best Sex Positions for Overweight Lovers


Yeah…I know. You want to make sure you are reading this WITHOUT your partner noticing. You love him/her, but those extra pounds sometimes get in the way. My first bit of advice is to definitely take 2 specific action steps to improve your quality of life:

1. Eat less sugars and carbohydrates. A low-glycemic diet of 6 small meals per day (As opposed to 3 larger meals per day) is a sure way to drop pounds without being hungry. For more details, drop me a line at doug@makeyourwifehotcom. I lost 20 pounds PERMANENTLY a while ago and those last 20 are always the hardest.

2. Exercise more. Your time is precious and if you can’t make it to the gym everyday, at least enroll in some dance lessons, or start walking more. If you can’t walk to work, try taking a walk with your spouse every day. You’ll increase your connection and you’ll shed a few pounds. Moreover, your energy levels will rise and this can help in every area of your life…including your sex life!

Of course, while you are working on becoming the fit, trim Adonis you were born to be, let’s not WAIT to have great sex while you are shedding those extra pounds. Setting a good example for the Mrs. has a leveraged affect on your life. You’ll feel better, look better, probably make more money and be an encouraging healthy guy for her.

That doesn’t mean that you have to give up sex, of course, on your journey to new found health. Nearly anyone with any amount of extra baggage can have fun, euphoric sex regardless of their weight, extra padding or baby fat. Men and women alike can enjoy each other despite any “barriers” to entry.

If your gal has a few extra pounds, your mind probably falls into one of 3 distinct spheres of thought.

1. You enjoy the extra padding and don’t mind it at all. Her large breasts turn you on and you have no complaints. You like her JUST the way she is, thank you.

2. You don’t really like grabbing that enlarged rear end. You love her, but would be more “into it” if she was thinner. It’s not a deal killer and if you could simply increase HER comfort with her body and get a little crazy, you’d be OK with the extra padding.

3. The extra weight has affected your libido. Her attractiveness to you is definitely waning and you are fearful of being unfaithful. You want to have more and better sex, but your partner simply hasn’t taken care of herself and it bothers you.

Psychologically, those three profiles are what most people have to deal with. For those of you in category #1, you have it easy. You can go right to the classic positions indicated in this article and have a GREAT time. If you are in category #2 or #3, you need a two pronged approach to your situation.


You need to read my chapter in Make Your Wife Hot on the stealth, psychological techniques to get your gal to lose her “post-baby” flab. It doesn’t matter if those extra pounds are YEARS past childbirth. You are assured that the strategies and tactics for getting her to slim down work 100% of the time. There are tremendous psychological and physical forces in play here and you can easily say or do the wrong thing without knowing it. I STRONGLY encourage you to get the book, read and re-read that chapter on creating the physical trophy wife you want. My wife had packed on an extra 40+ pounds for nearly 7 years and it almost nearly killed an otherwise healthy sex life. Getting HER to be excited about being fit, trim and sexy again took nearly 7 months, but she has kept the weight off for over 3 years and looks hotter than ever. YUM!


Establishing sex positions for maximum pleasure with an overweight lover is easier than you think. The Kama Sutra, with over 60 positions will give you some great ideas. Here are the top ones that can create maximum penetration, regardless of the size of a person’s belly, rear or thighs.

Girl on Top
Having your gal on top of may be somewhat difficult considering her stomach may be in the way. However, there is still non-gymnastic gyration around this obstacle. Get on your own back, bend your knees and put a pillow or two under your own rear. Have her get on top of you and lean back on your knees. By placing her weight on her hands and using her feet to get the rhythm started you two can dance horizontally with full penetration. Allow her to turn around and reverse cowgirl this move should also work wonders at keeping the extra padding out of the way and relieving stress from your muscles and joints.

Side Entry
Ask you lady to relax on her side in a fetal-like position (on her side with knees bent). Careful placement of a pillow or two to increase your angle almost always helps. Place a few of them under her hip and before you get into it. Your position should have you kneeling as you would be doing it doggy style. If you can lift one of her legs and place it on your shoulder, you get extra points for effort depending on how limber she is. But the penetration you’ll get is worth a few stretching exercises!

With your woman on her back, raise her legs up and toss them over your shoulders in the missionary position. Again, you can use the pillows, or you can simply elevate her until her butt is barely touching the bed. This may take some bench press work on your part prior to doing a good job, but believe me, a heavy woman has the same internal structure as a thin one. Take good care of her and she will do the same for YOU!

For more ideas on creating a sexually charged relationship, visit today. Our book and system to create a trophy wife begins with YOU, buster! Treating her like a princess is the first start. Your consistent efforts there and by utilizing the stealth psychological tactics in our workbook, you’ll have a relationship that will be the envy of your peers. Make YOUR wife hot today!

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Best Sex Positions to Go All Night


Reverse Cowgirl: Best Sex Position to Last Longer

So you’ve had a long night. Maybe you’ve had a few drinks and that has made you extra horny. Your long day at the office was fulfilling, but your 2nd wind expired about an hour ago. You and your girl are walking in the door and you are both considering calling it a night…problem is, you are both a little turned on.

Tired and turned on…sounds like the making of a lackluster sexual encounter.

With the proper pace, rhythm and conservation of energy, you can both achieve a blissful orgasm without having to pound her for an hour or ask her to be on top because your back hurts. The following positions are uniquely suited to conserve energy for the both of you, while delivering satisfying sex and potential orgasms whenever you want them.

1. Cowgirl. When the trail boss is weary, it’s time for the cowgirl to pick up the pace and work it a bit. Have your girl sit on you as you lay back and just take it. For some variety, don’t forget to try the reverse cowgirl-you’ll get a nice view of her backside and depending on her angle, you’ll hit some new spots that’ll make her yell “Yee Ha!”

Explore how allowing her to be in control can not only conserve YOUR energy, but give her the exact stimulation she needs to pop her cherry. I highly recommend this popular book, by Dr. Sadie Alison. Something about sex books written by women…kinda kinky-right?

2. Pacing. Many men (and women) are aroused by vigorous sex. Anyone who has watched porno must think that vigorous, rapid-fire sex is the one and only method for the highly orgasmic couple. In fact, nerve-endings can be stimulated just as easily with a slow pace than with a rapid one. In fact, an excruciatingly slow entry can add anticipation and a false sense of length to lovemaking. Change up your pace, steady and slow can create heightened excitement and save your energy.

3. Wheelbarrow. When your woman is on the bed and you standing on the floor at the edge of the bed, pick up her legs and hold them like the handles of a wheelbarrow. By controlling her body and with your feet firmly planted on the ground you can easily penetrate her with minimal energy. This not only allows for a deeper penetration move on your part, but if you can toss her legs over your shoulders (adding a pillow under her behind helps) you can even keep your arms down, grab her thighs instead of her ankles and really ‘relax’ as you have sex. This is a terrific position to conserve energy, penetrate a bit deeper and control the pace.

There are over 60 positions outlined in the Kama Sutra and I will be referring to each and every one of them as the days go on. As this is a PG rated blog, you’ll have to request pictures for downloading. I won’t be posting full nudes here. I will have two FULL books full of drawings and photos for your reference and continue describing the benefits and techniques of artful lovemaking. Simply register for my FREE book on “The 4 Minute Rolling Orgasm” and you’ll get the cliff notes on the Kama Sutra at no cost! For the full book (recommended) click here. The benefits of using a variety of positions are not only adding some variety to your love life, but you will notice a massive increase in pleasure and arousal. I guarantee it!

Saving energy to last longer, positions for people who are overweight and best positions for your fetishes will be discussed. Your comments are always welcome and in the meantime, be sure to treat your woman like a princess! Marriages last because people continue to date after they are married.

Now go and surprise her with some flowers, a foot massage or an unusual sex position that will make her scream, cream and tingle with delight! If you need some more ideas, check out my book “Make Your Wife Hot” today. You’ll find a clear strategy to increase your wife’s sex appeal, influence her to lose weight (without getting in trouble), drive her libido up to YOUR level and change your marriage into a sexually-charged, intimate relationship you’ve always wanted.

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Best Sex Position for Powerful Orgasms


orgasm sex positionsYou wouldn’t race a VW bug in the Indy 500 and you wouldn’t drive your Mercedes coupe to pick up wood chips, so why do you think that all of your sex positions are designed for the same feeling? You have a wonderful arsenal of different positions for the three of you (That’s for me, her and us!) Moods, energy levels and a variety of desires can make your sex average to downright earth-shattering if you are in sync with all of the forces in play.

In this series of articles, we will explore a variety of sexual positions, their strengths, weaknesses, when they are best introduced and more importantly I’d like YOUR FEEDBACK on how they work, the pace you took and the results you had when exploring them. Come on…it’s time to share the love!

1. Missionary Of all the positions, guy on top, girl on bottom, this is a standard and favorite for you, her and the couple (Y,H,C). Here’s why: When a man is on top, he can thrust the penis. This is simply the way we were built. It works pretty well and the power, control and penetration is very satisfying for the man. For many women, however, clitoral stimulation is not optimized. Her vaginal stimulation is decent, but the REAL feeling she receives is that of being slammed. When a woman is being dominated (Meant with all due respect, of course) her feminine side is revealed. Women WANT a strong and powerful man to desire them. This need of being with a powerful man means that her offspring have a better chance of being successful. Sorry to make it so anthropological, but at the core of feelings, that is where it comes from.

Your pace and variety will be important here. Men who watch too much porn believe that having sex like a rabbit is the only way to go. If you vary your pace, frequency and rhythm of movement you add some variety to the session and you actually stimulate different nerve endings in yourself and your partner. Go ahead and slam it home like your a jack hammer. Just don’t forget to try a few slow and steady moves to add a little variety.

In order to give her a powerful orgasm with the missionary position, you’ll have to add some clitoral stimulation (over 70% of women orgasm with clitoral stimulation). Here are some ways to do that during sex in the missionary position.

1. Put a pillow under her rear. Get her body to curve upwards. This will bring your penis closer to the roof of her vagina and give you an opportunity to stimulate her G spot. Moreover, you can use your hand or fingers to stimulate the clitoris and bring her to orgasm when she is ready.

2. Get her to assist you. During pre-orgasm, gently glide her hand over to her clitoris to bring her to climax. By making this a true team effort, you’ll both be happier and more satisfied. If she is embarrassed to touch herself in front of you, you may have to take this maneuver in steps.

3. Toy assist. There are cock rings and smaller vibrators than can fit nicely around her clitoral region during sex. Be sure to buy 2 or more of these at a time. Your chances of getting the perfect appliance that works for the two of you is rare. It unlikely that if she already has a toy, that it’ll work for the two of you. Most women who pack a vibrator friend use it while on their back WITHOUT you around. Introducing your body on top when her “friend” is working won’t be the same. With a new position, comes a new appliance. Variety is the SPICE of life!sex position orgasm

We’ll cover more positions from now until the holidays. Be sure to check in every day, leave your comments and pick up a copy of my FREE ebook, the 4 minute rolling orgasm by registering on the right side of my blog.

-Doug Steponin

Best Sex Position for G Spot Stimulation


gspot_sex_positionAh…the elusive “G” spot. What is it? Where is it? What sex positions can we use to maximize stimulation of the “G” spot once we find it? How can I use it to give my wife an orgasm that shakes the world?

Read on and be sure to share this post with her! You definitely can’t accomplish this without some basic understanding the “G” spot, where is located and most importantly, how and WHEN to work it.  As with learning anything new, you’re bound to make a few mistakes, but hey…these mistakes are guaranteed to be fun! So, let’s become a master at painting the canvas which is your wife’s beautiful body.

The g-spot is a bean-shaped, spongy mass of nerve tissue that resides under the frontal vaginal wall. In order to locate it, make sure she is wet, because you’ll have a harder time if you treat this as a lab experiment instead of an advanced erotic move. Position a pillow under her rear or simply allow her to lay on her back with her hips slightly lifted or propped up. Put a finger inside her vaginal wall towards the front of her body (belly-button side). Reach in as far as you can go, and bend your finger in a “come here” motion. Then slide your finger along the vaginal wall until you find a rough-textured area. The g-spot should feel ridged or nubbly compared to the rest of the vaginal canal and is generally found about 2 inches in, although it can lie pretty much anywhere along the front of the vaginal canal – even as far back as the cervix. It’s really more of an area then an actual “spot.”

Now that you know WHERE it is, what do you do with it? Well, that depends. Some women enjoy g-spot stimulation and some women don’t. Be aware that how much she enjoys it may also depend on where she is in her menstrual cycle. The sex positions we’ll cover here all allow for maximum penetration and depending on how your penis curves, should allow for some stimulation with your penis.

If your penis naturally curves upward, you may have a slight advantage to hitting this area. If you don’t, then any position that maximizes contact with the front of her vaginal wall should work. Woman-on-top-facing-you works well, she can also slightly lean back to take advantage of more front-vaginal contact. The missionary position works well if you prop her hips up, or use a pillow. You can also get some traction if she’s laying on the edge of something and you’re standing on the floor. You may not even need to prop her hips up. By standing, you have more control over the angle as you penetrate her.
If your angle isn’t hitting this spot, keep trying a variety of positions to get the penis towards the top of the vaginal wall. A popular position is the one illustrated below.

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If it’s not working for you, put a pillow or two under her rear to lift up her hips. Don’t give up. It takes some couples weeks of experimentation to find out what works for them. If the penile stimulation won’t rock her world, move right over to using your finger or fingers. To manually stimulate the g-spot, you will need to experiment with different pressures and motions. Talk about what works for her. Move your finger(s) in that “come hither” motion works well for most. Because the g-spot is located inside of the vaginal wall, you may need to exert a fair bit of pressure to stimulate it.

You can also try a “tapping” motion to stimulate the “G” spot. Tap the area with your fingers and try varying the speed and firmness of the tapping. Working the area in circles like she teases her hair is another method. Everyone is different so don’t be afraid to try a variety of motions. There is an excellent video on this topic available by clicking here.

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After you’ve found it and been able to stimulate the “G” spot, it is important to use this powder keg of pleasure judiciously. You probably shouldn’t hit it at every chance you get. If you don’t create some anticipation every once in a while, you will be creating Christmas for her every day.

Not a good plan.

Just as you might get bored of a blow job every morning and sex twice a night, (well maybe it would take a while but eventually you WOULD get bored!) you don’t want to excite the “G” spot at every chance you get. Nor do you want to hit the spot each time you have sex.

As you are beginning your sexual encounter wait for the pre-orgasm cycle of sex before switching positions or changing your penis for your finger. (To understand more of the pre-orgasm cycle, register for your FREE book, “The 4 Minute Orgasm” by filling our your email on the upper right) When she is a minute or two from an orgasm; that is the perfect time to stimulate her “G” spot and send her over the edge. Her orgasm will most likely be uncontrollable and you more likely to get her into a rolling, multiple orgasm rhythm for a while by saving the “G” spot stimulation for the pre-orgasm cycle.

The key is to be patient, creative and open to exploration of your wife’s body. Together you can create “off the chart” sex for the rest of your lives. Start today by reading up on how to understand your woman, and you’ll start to enjoy all the sex and adoration you desire within days! Click on the book below…

Why Being Bad is Good


Why is it that we want a “good” girl in public? You know, the one you can bring home to mom, raise the kids, drive ’em to soccer and attend PTA meetings. But, in private we want a “bad” girl?

Are we asking too much to want a polished, proper, loyal and stable wife for our public lives and a naughty, private whore in the bedroom? Some people profess to ‘want it all’ and spend their entire lives in pursuit of the elusive “perfect mate.” Here’s the ugly truth…

No such person exists!

Deep down inside everyone knows it, of course. It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to understand that the core personality traits of that perfect mom don’t apply to the free-spirited, short-skirt, nymphomaniac who seduces you in the car after dropping the kids off at school.

If you need proof, all you need to do is watch an episode of the classic Star Trek series,

The Enemy Within:
-Premise: A transporter malfunction splits Kirk into two versions of himself- one calm and intellectual, the other raging and emotional.

Furthermore, the calm and intellectual version has ZERO libido and can’t make any decisions. The emotional one is a walking hard-on and has no discipline. Sound familiar? Do your thoughts betray you?

Of course every man and woman has a combination of these qualities. We use them for work, play and social interaction. Being “bad” can be tempered with sensibility and decorum. Similarly, “good” girls can be encouraged, educated and even trained to pull out the naughty qualities that are within themselves.

So there you have it. If you married a slut, chances are she’s cheated on you and you’re either going to deal with it or move on to sweet-polly-purebred for your next girl. Or, perhaps you’ve acquired the necessary attitude and skills to harness that pony and keep her loyal to you. My cuckold friends, of course, laugh at the ridiculousness of it all and ENCOURAGE their women to bring home an occasional additional lover. Nothing can turn him on more than to watch his wife in a live porn show!

On the other side of the coin, what if you selected that “I’d like to bring you home to meet my parents” type of girl. If you chose well for breeding and family life, you may have done well for those duties, but what about the “bad” girl? Is is possible to transform that perfect, Mother of the Year role model into a dual-role bed warmer?


Readers of my blog and book understand that it is up to us, the man of the house to treat our women with respect, adoration and understanding…without exception. Additionally, once you have mastered the sincere gratitude of your wife, you must also be 100% open and honest with your desires for the private, naughty, and steamy stuff you want.

Here’s another analogy from a completely different industry:

1. You go to a bank and make a deposit of $1,000. The next day you want to withdraw $50,000. The banker laughs at your lack of simple math skills. Game over.

2. You deposit $1,000 per day for 30 days. You earn interest on your money. You visit that bank every day. They know your name. You bring them a small gift every once in a while. You listen to the teller’s story. At the end of the month you make a simple withdraw of $$2,000. You do this consistently and with sincerity for over a year. You’ve accumulated over $340,000 plus interest and the tellers think you are the greatest. You then ask the cutest teller to give you a blow job in the walk-in safe.

No…wait a minute, that last metaphor was meant for your wife!

You see, most men think that a bouquet of flowers or doing the dishes once in a while is “payment” for a romp in the hay. While that may work short term, imagine what kind of leverage and influence you would have if you REALLY were prince charming?

By making consistent deposits in your wife’s emotional bank account (Details in my book) you are able to create tremendous withdraws for taking her to strip clubs, buying her a nurse’s outfit, and slowly and carefully opening up her naughty side for your mutual pleasure. Like any worthwhile investment, it takes time, patience and some open manipulation.

Your wife CAN be a bad girl…and that’s good!


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How To Make Your Wife Wet…and help the economy


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Make your wife wet TONIGHT! No…I promise not to make any stupid jokes about going through the car wash with the windows open! Maybe your life was like mine. There was a time a few years back when I was in a situation like this:

I’ve been married for 17 years, we have a beautiful family, a nice house, great neighborhood and all the appearances of peace and joy.

So why am I so focused on sex?

Because I’m not getting any, that’s why.

Hello, guys. That was the internal conversation I had in my head a few years ago. As a fit, funny, charismatic and decent looking guy I entered a typical “Midlife Crisis” along with a declining economy and my wife’s rapid and steady loss of libido. The economy; that’ll get better. My wife’s low sex drive-now THAT IS AN EMERGENCY! If only our President would focus on that, I’m sure 75% of the health care crisis would disappear.

Imagine if all the wives of the world would miraculously increase their sex drives by even 20%! Husbands of the world would be having sex more, they would be happier, their productivity would rise, the companies they worked for would see increase in revenue and profit, those companies would hire more people, the employment rate would rise, and both husbands and wives would get in better shape to have more frequent and long-lasting sex, and before you know it our economy would be robust, health care costs would plummet and there would be more people walking around with smiles on their faces. This would also spike a reduction of crime and I would venture to guess that infidelity and divorces would see a decline as well.

All because you bought the book, “Make Your Wife Hot” and told 2 buddies about it.

Is this simply a clever marketing ploy to sell a few books. Of course it is! I love making $22 every time someone purchases my book. But guess what, with hundreds of copies in print and more being purchased every day, I have had less than 10 returns-ever.

That clearly shows that the book WORKS and my mission to fix the health care crisis, restore the economy, reduce crime and make the world a happier place is working!

I am betting my reputation and my valuable time on it.


Because, like you, I was at the end of my rope with my marriage and looking at starting over was not very appealing. Fixing my marriage didn’t look much better, but for the sake of the children and my own self-esteem, I was willing to give the marriage-thing another chance.

Only THIS time, I wasn’t going to waste all my time on just being nicer, understanding and a good listener. THIS time, I wanted outcomes that guys want.

I wanted more sex.

I wanted steamy encounters.

I wanted to feel like I was banging a hooker in Vegas.

I wanted to express ALL my fantasies with my wife and not feel guilty about it.

I wanted a miracle.

The culmination of over 3 years of research, counseling and reading over 42 books on relationships revealed an UNTAPPED and UNMENTIONED secret that I have been able to harness and exploit. (Exploit for the greater good!) When you apply this simple and easy-to-use secret, you can expect your wife to become a smoking hot, sex-crazed nymphomaniac in a matter of a few weeks or even days.

This secret will also open up a whole treasure chest of un-spoken fantasies, fetishes and creative sex ideas that you can share openly with your wife and NOT GET IN TROUBLE for! In fact, many couples read my book and can’t believe how simple it is to re-create their passions as if they were hormone-crazed teenagers!

Click on the book and light some candles. You’re about to get EXACTLY what you want…

covered02Take a look at my book, “Make Your Wife Hot” today. If you don’t find at least ONE trick to have more and better sex, simply return it for a full refund. My guess is, you’ll be too busy in the sack to think about it.

-Doug Steponin

Morning Wood: Make the Most out of Your Morning Erections


Are you curious about morning erections? Most men have the experience, with some regularity, of waking up in the morning with an erection. Why is this? Is it nature’s way of preventing you from wetting the bed? Is it a love hangover from that dream with your secretary?

Morning erections, colloquially referred to as “morning wood” and scientifically defined as nocturnal penile tumescence (NPT) are a healthy and normal physiological response that most many men experience. Waking up with “wood” may be better described as the finale to a sequence of erections during sleep. It is simply the one you remember…unless you had a wet dream.

Men average between three and five erections during a good night sleep. The erections can last from 25 -35 minutes each.

Causes of Morning Erections

It is a common myth that morning erections are caused by a full bladder. This is untrue. (Do you get them during the day before you have to pee?)

Hormone levels seem to rise during sleep and waking up with a hard on is a clear indicator that your testosterone levels are normal.  Your evening erections are also associated with an increase in heart rate. It isn’t known for sure if the erections are a result of the other physiological changes. One guess is that these erections are the bodies way of making sure everything is in good working order.

A challenge in many relationships occur when over-achieving men work 10-12 hours per day and are too exhausted in the evenings to engage in vigorous intercourse. The following morning ‘BING’ you and your johnson are awake and if you are fortunate enough to have a lady next to you, your one-track mind is in full gear.

The challenge may occur because you don’t have the skills in communication or foresight to eliminate morning breath or create a similar response with your girl or didn’t allow enough time to prepare for this inevitable DAILY event! In fact, because of its nearly daily occurrence, many men overlook the golden opportunity they have to use this time to create effortless sex! Here are some simple steps you can take to maximize nature’s Viagra.

Use Your Morning Erections

1. Put some strong mints on the nightstand. Morning breath is a real libido killer. Getting up and brushing your teeth can also work, but by then, you’ll probably go to the bathroom, lose your erection and be back to routine sex. That is not what this post is about!

2. Bathroom breaks. Most women (and men) have to pee first thing in the morning. Training you body to change this routine isn’t very difficult and the methods we suggest nearly always work. A) Reduce fluid intake after 9 PM. This may handicap you guys who need a few drinks to make love to the old lady, but hey, that’s what light switches are for. A better solution is to take the time to make your wife hot! Click here for my step by step guide on transforming your soccer-mom spouse into your private whore. By reducing fluid intake in the evening and eliminating it from 9 PM on, your body will have less of a desire to pee in the early morning. However, a quantity of urine WILL be produced. Which brings us to timing. B) “Accidentally” set your alarm for 4 AM. Nudge the little woman to turn it off, or do it yourself. But be sure to make a bit of noise and turn the lights on. That way she can wake up, also. By both of you peeing around 4 AM, you have cleared the path for another few hours of sleep and “TA DA”…no need to pee.

3. The set up. To really seal the deal on your morning jaunt, have sex in the evening prior and/or at the 4 AM point when you both pee. However, do NOT give your woman an orgasm. By bringing her right to the edge (especially at 4 AM) you will leave her wanting more at 7 AM when your free erection is ready for action. Depending on your stamina, you may hold back yourself.

So, with 3 simple steps, a little preparation and a whole lot of fun, you can transform as many of these wake up call erections into passionate, morning exercise for the both of you!

For more ideas, strategies and tips on creating a passion-filled, lustful relationship with your girl visit today. She may be average, but your mission is to create a sex machine! Go for it!

Artistic Sex


Stop watching porn!

I confess that I have never, ever actually watched a complete pornographic movie. Oh sure, I’ve put a few movies on and the wife and I have used the imagery and titillation to arouse the mood. But we never watched the entire movie…sorry about the ridiculousness of it, but there isn’t much difference from the first 10 mintues to the last!

But, seriously, has there ever been an ‘artistic’ movie around sex?

Sure, Doug…”9 1/2 weeks” “Gone with the Wind” and…uhm…Screech! Wait. I said SEX not ROMANCE!

You see, artistic sex is a lost art in the United States. Our microwave society has generated a new breed of instant gratification when it comes to everything including fast food, lottery millionaires and love on demand.

Artistic sex reminds me of a symphony. When two people go at it like dogs they are procreating. Nothing wrong with that if you want to make puppies. But a true artful lover enjoys the warm up, the dance, the fast interlude, the steady and slow pacing and the cymbal crash at the end of the song. Artful lovemaking always reminds me of classical music with its depth, variety of pace, rhythm, crescendos, frequency and amplitude. Listening to good classical music is actually terrific training for becoming and artistic lover.

If you are into rap music, then all the skills you need are available for $4.99 per download. Bang like animals and enjoy your repetitive boredom of sameness.

Don’t be embarrassed by the fact that 90% of us usually have sex in the same 2 or 3 positions. Heck, we know what creates an orgasm for our partner and ourselves. After a few years, however, don’t you want to try something new?

I don’t mean JUST a new position. You can get any number of the kama sutra positions from this blog and our new edition of coming out next year. (Complete with tasteful images for you and your spouse) You spouse will be thrilled that you consider more than just a new position. Your assignment is to create a new experience!

A good start is the book “500 Lovemaking Secrets” by Michael Webb. Michael has been featured on Oprah, CBS, NBC and dozens of other magazines and media. His advice is solid and he has a wealth of details he reveals in this book.

So don’t settle for simply a new toy, gizmo, position or underwear. Create a new experience that can transform not only your sex life, but your love life as well. Who knows, somebody should be writing that tasteful sexual movie one day…why not you!

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How to Seduce Your Wife


Seduction is a powerful emotion. The idea of seducing a woman gives us power and the thought of being seduced eliminates guilt! Either way, we win.

Seducing a woman is, of course, a mental game. The end result is getting her in bed, but in order to accomplish that, one must understand the mental and emotional triggers most woman have, be able to read a person’s personality, and be adaptable to the situation, game, and unexpected words and body language that will occur.


Oh…I’m sorry…you’ve been married for 10, 12, 20 years. Never mind. Just keep taking the kids to soccer practice, work you ass off and hope for vacation sex every year or so. If you’re lucky, maybe if your wife isn’t too tired, you can sneak in a 20 minute session Sunday morning.

Remember when you seduced her? Remember when you had sex every day? Would you like to feel young, vibrant, and sexually-charged like when you were dating years ago?

Duh. So go ahead and SEDUCE YOUR WIFE!

Below are some pointers so you don’t appear ridiculous. After all, she knows your name, how to make you cum, and where you are going home tonight. The point of seduction is the mystery of the “dance” and the excitement of “new” with a partner. As a married guy, your job is to rekindle those feelings with a woman you know very well.

It is MORE difficult to seduce someone you know. (Perhaps that is another reasons affairs are so thrilling. It is easier to seduce a stranger or co-worker than your spouse.)

  1. Be aloof. Your wife can read your body language, style, vernacular and words better than anyone. In order to pull this off, you need a new personality. Study one of your friends, an actor or a co-worker and pick up some of their mannerisms, voice inflection and attitude. Don’t be a jerk, just learn to be different.
  2. Surprise her. Women LOVE surprises. Don’t bore her with an arrangement of flowers, chump. That is too easy and even though she will appreciate it, it’s no surprise. Send her a singing telegram, hire a sky writer, or send her a put up a full size poster of her face in your office. Be extraordinary and don’t be cheap.
  3. Pamper her. Showing a woman you care about her comes in many forms. You can tell her how beautiful she is, shower her with gifts, do the dishes without being asked, or give her a hot oil massage. In any of these scenarios, one will stand out as her favorite. Do it. After you are done, DO NOT EXPECT OR ASK FOR SEX! That is a sure way to blow the seduction.
  4. Patience. Do not expect sex as soon as you pull your “move.” It is better to keep pampering her, surprising her and simply not care about sex at all. The more you DON’T want it, after being prince charming, the more SHE will want to give it to you.

This last point is the crux of the seduction. Seduction is not conquering. The less you care about her the more she will be curious and come to you. This only occurs, of course, after you have shown, displayed, spoken, or written how much she means to you. Being a prince charming is being charming!

Making her the hot vixen you want and desire isn’t difficult at all; my book comes complete with a full blown 30-60 day plan to create the changes you want for your relationship not just “one-night stands” but permanent habits of lust, love and laughter for the rest of your life.


Cuckold: Are you demented?


Of all the fantasies that divide people cuckolding could be one of the most confusing. For the uninitiated, cuckolding is a husband’s desire to have his wife have sex with another man. It is most often when the husband is watching but can extend out to him not even being there.

When I think about this fantasy from a psychological view, I find it fascinating. On one hand, the stories I have read show a man who enjoys being dominated by a strong woman; a woman so powerful that he alone cannot satisfy her. This type of man may also embrace dominatrix fetishes and become stimulated by being dominated; sexually and otherwise.


On the other hand, some men who are NOT into the dominatrix stuff still enjoy seeing their wife having sex with another man. Their confidence and comfort with this activity is the exact opposite of the weaker man syndrome. A man who enjoys watching his wife having sex with another man is akin to watching pornography, only your WIFE is in the show!

Now, pornography is a visual stimulus many individuals and couples use to assist in arousal where average arousal has either tapered off or isn’t working at all. The logical extension of 2 dimensional stimulation is 3 dimensional. Going to gentleman’s clubs, getting a lap dance (for 2!) and considering cuckolding or group sex can raise the bar, your blood pressure, and sensual arousal to extreme heights.

This type of activity, however, is never for the couple who have any confidence or jealousy issues. Too many couples have tried to use extreme arousal techniques to rekindle a relationship when the REAL issue was communication and not sex.

That is one of the key drivers for our HUGELY successful workshop in Las Vegas, Nevada this past November. Our 1/2 day workshop in 2010 will focus on creating open, honest and complete communication with an emphasis on the sexual expression of your love and lust. It will be a enlightening afternoon and evening. Men, women are couples are all invited and I encourage you to email me about what weekend would work for you. If it is anything like our last one, you’ll go home charged up, enlightened and maybe a little sore!

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