Make Your Wife Hot

Writing about sex can sometimes just make you horny!

But it wasn’t always that way. For many years (especially when the kids were little) my wife’s energy, enthusiasm and overall sex appeal had just about disappeared.

At the time it seemed like the right thing to do…take a back seat to the kids. They came first and my wife was working 24/7 to raise them with very little sleep. After a few years, we both entered the rut of parenting and resigned ourselves that our sex life was going to be towards the bottom of our “to do” list…way down there, at the bottom…yuk.

I tried being helpful, funny, extra charming, etc. To no avail. My sex life was regulated to a fortunate Sunday morning every week or two. In fact, our kids Sunday school was called, “The Sunday Morning Miracle”

That’s the name I gave to our sex life.

After we had drifted apart sexually, emotionally and even physically, we nearly divorced. It wasn’t until we realized how stupid we both were that we decided to turn on the sex-daily!

Now I know that life, jobs and kids get in the way. But it is similar to the emergency instructions on an airliner which clearly states, “Please put your oxygen mask on FIRST before assisting others.” The reason they do this is simple. If you can’t take care of yourself, then you will be UNABLE to help others.

If Mom and Dad aren’t happy, how can they conceive of raising happy kids?

So if you want to stay married, have a terrific sex life and learn how to not be just the master of your domain, but the master of HER domain, shoot me an email and let me know when you’d like to have the next sex workshop (It’ll be in Vegas-for sure!). You and your wife are invited for an evening of openness, non-judgmental communication and a kick-ass party after we are done with the workshop.

In the meantime, please feel free to preview our book on How to Make Your Wife Hot!