The mystery of the orgasm never ceases to be a topic of interest. Even if you are clinical enough to research the definition, explanation or chemical function of the orgasm, you will probably come back to how it applies to you (pun intended). Of course, muscular contraction and increased blood flow are notable physiological clues to having an orgasm. The fluid released in both male and females is a physical reminder of the climax itself. But what about the untold facts? Are you curious about the speed of sperm? Do you wonder who has had the most documented number of multiple orgasms? Continue on, dear reader, and you can fill your head (another pun) with more useless facts that will make you the hit at your next cocktail party (pun #3).
When a man orgasms, the volume of semen is approximately 10 cubic centimeters. During his lifetime, this equates to approximately 14 gallons. If you masturbate more than once per day (It’s OK. The economy was slow and you were out of work) this could increase to more than 20 gallons. Yum.
You may know about the G spot (Click on my other posts on the details of stimulating this special patch of powerful nerve receptors). Did you realize that men also have a G spot? In fact, there are three areas in men that resemble the G spot in a woman. They are called frenulum, perineum and the prostate gland. Careful ladies…most men need a stiff drink before you experiment in there!
Ask a man when the appropriate time for an orgasm is and the most common answer is “now.” For women, many refuse or avoid sex during their period. Something about messy sheets resembling a murder scene gives them the creeps. Only the pre-med students know that the increased blood circulation around the groin actually increases orgasm pleasure. Get a towel and turn off the lights!
According to the Kinsey report, the average speed of male ejaculate is 28 mph. While this is faster than Carl Lewis, it is still not as fast as a cheetah. The sperm of course, don’t travel that fast on their own. In a single hour they may only travel 4 to 5 inches. Of course 3 to 4 inches for those little guys equals is equivalent to an ironman competition for you or me. No wonder most of them die.
Your last breath may not be your last action. If the sacral nerves in the spinal cord are oxygenated and stimulated, then there isn’t any reason why a dead person can’t climax. I am not sure if there is any benefit to this, because neither party would truly enjoy it, unless one of you are into necrophilia.
A woman’s influence on the male orgasm is powerful. Research has shown that the more “vocal” women create orgasms in their male partners on a more consistent basis. On average male’s orgasm 59 percent of the time while their partner is screaming in ecstasy, and only 2 percent of the time while she’s lying on her back organizing her shopping list in her head.
Many women are capable of multiple orgasms. The most female orgasms recorded by Dr. William Hartman and Dr. Marilyn Fithian. The world record was 134 orgasms in a single hour or more than 2 per minute. What makes this feat even more amazing is that she was alone, in a doctor’s office with these two scientists watching her every move. I guess there is a job for everything.
Creating an orgasm isn’t rocket science. Creating powerful, screaming, pounding multiple orgasms takes some patience and study. Be sure to register for our free book, The 4 minute rolling orgasm by registering on the right side of this page.
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Saving a marriage begins with your attitude. After you DECIDE to work on it, you have to keep your attitude in the right space. After your decision has been made, give yourself time to learn how to be a couple again. You may have a few uncomfortable moments, but the journey can also be enjoyable. Below are a few thoughts and ideas:
If you don’t want to take on something that interests your spouse, and jump in with both feet, you can still ‘share’ your thoughts and let them know you noticed what is important to them.
For example, clip an article out of the paper on your husband’s favorite football team, or record a TV appearance by your wife’s favorite actor. Better yet, read a newspaper article about something that interests your spouse and talk to them about it over dinner. Ask them questions about what you read and what they know about the topic and watch their face light up.
Listen to your spouse talk about their favorite subject or hobby and, instead of shutting them down, try to hear ‘clues’ in what they say about what makes them interested in the subject.
Talk to them about what YOU find interesting in the subject. For example, if your husband belongs to a book club and he always talks about the books he is reading, ask him about his favorite authors or what kinds of books he likes best – mystery, suspense, sci-fi.
If you can’t share the interest, at least show your spouse that you respect and honor it. Register your gourmet cook spouse in a local session with a famous chef or find a website or a recipe you think will interest them.
A particularly effective and favorite way to develop a common interest is to look at what interests the both of you now. Then try to find a common area or a ‘type’ of activity you both like.
An example might be if both of you like sports, but you don’t have a sport in common.
Perhaps you bowl and you work out at the gym, and your wife runs. So, you are both in good physical condition and you both like to be active. Maybe you’d like to take a sailing course together.
Eventually, you might even buy a boat if you both like the activity. But, for right now, start small.
10. If you both like music and there is one kind that you both like, buy tickets to a concert and go see the artist. Don’t wait, don’t talk about it. Just do it.
11. Or, plan a day in the city to go to a museum that has exhibits you may both like. Your spouse will gladly walk through the exhibit he does not like, to get to the one he DOES like and you’ll get to time to talk to each other as you wander around.
If his/her interests don’t align with yours, try doing something NEW together that neither of you has tried or experienced before. If you are bored, that means YOU are boring! Take the next boring or peaceful moment and get out of the house. Go somewhere or try a new activity that you wouldn’t ordinarily even think about.
Along the way, you will rediscover the things you love about each other and the things you already have in common. And together you might just develop some new interests! Remember, action creates results (negative or positive) and inaction breeds nothing except the reminder of your discontent. If you want to change your situation, change your actions!
My wife was a dull, slightly depressed mom to our children for years. As I entered midlife, I craved MORE action, adventure and excitement. I wanted a hot wife I could party with! At first she thought it was ridiculous, but eventually she not only embraced a full lifestyle, but has lead us to crazy nights, passionate sex and naughty activities that have created great memories for us to share over and over again. For some ideas on THAT click on http://www.makeyourwifehot.com.
After a few years you may run out of positions to try…sure you’ve found your top 2-3 favorite ones…the ones that are a 100% sure fire hit and get you and your spouse to share in the euphoria.
But what about WHERE you have sex? After you’ve “broken in” the rooms in the house, done it in the car or on the back patio, where can you go to add some spice and ‘ZIP’ in the relationship? Below are a few ideas I gleaned from my personal experience as well as a few other people. (I can’t and WON’T claim having sex in church or near the dumpster…yuk!)
You’ll never run out of places or WAYS to spice up your sex life! We are not talking porn here, just some edgy stuff to give your relationship some new life and vitality. If you don’t keep doing NEW things, someone is likely to get bored and have an affair and/or get divorced. Your sex life and your marriage may be at stake!
Send me YOUR entry as to the most UNUSUAL place you’ve had sex and win a copy of my book-FREE! Send me an email to doug@makeyourwifehot.com or simply post your story or place in the comments section below.
In a public Jacuzzi with others around.
In my ex wife’s parent’s basement while they were home!
In a public park pavilion in daylight.
In the elevator at a 25 story hotel (quickie)
In the alley next to a dumpster (empty thank God) behind a nightclub.
On a trampoline in a college gymnasium.
On a picnic table outside of an icehouse. People were cheering us on.
In most of my friends bathrooms during parties.
In the front seat during road trips (in mustangs, very hard to do).
In my ex-boyfriend’s parents bed with my husband.
In a Christmas display in the middle of the shopping mall.
In the back bed of a ford f350 while being driven down the road.
In a confessional and behind the altar.
At an amusement park haunted house with people walking through.
At a baseball stadium pitcher’s mound (with the pitcher of course!).
In a jump tower on a military training field.
At the zoo in front of the monkey cage (after hours).
In a dentist chair (I worked in a dental office).
On the 50 yard line at Raven Stadium at night.
At an ice hockey arena change room in between games.
At an elementary school in an empty class room.
On top of a school building during a football game.
In the ladies room at a law office during business hours.
In a room full of guests (my girlfriend sitting on my lap and nobody was the wiser).
In the bathroom stall at parking garage.
In a park in the bushes next to a playground.
Under the Rheine main bridge downtown Mannheim.
On the roof of a high rise after a thunderstorm.
In a church up by the organ late on a Sunday night.
On a massage table one hour before the spa opened.
In the darkroom at a photography lab.
On the EXACT beach where they filmed “From Here to Eternity” in Hawaii.
Try something new and send an email to stories@makeyourwifehot.com and let me know what new and unusual place you’ve had sex. Winner of the most UNUSUAL place will get a copy of my free book. Any other stories are welcome…all names changed or hidden to protect the guilty!
For more ideas, tips, strategies and ways to spice up your sex life, have a SMOKIN’hot wife visit makeyourwifehot.com today!
The mystery of the orgasm never ceases to be a topic of interest. Even if you are clinical enough to research the definition, explanation or chemical function of the orgasm, you will probably come back to how it applies to you (pun intended). Of course, muscular contraction and increased blood flow are notable physiological clues to having an orgasm. The fluid released in both male and females is a physical reminder of the climax itself. But what about the untold facts? Are you curious about the speed of sperm? Do you wonder who has had the most documented number of multiple orgasms? Continue on, dear reader, and you can fill your head (another pun) with more useless facts that will make you the hit at your next cocktail party (pun #3).
